Thursday, 20 March 2014

Your Questions About Womens Pumps

Jenny asks…

What kind of tops (neckline especially) look good with Statement Necklaces?

Ive a white multi-beaded statement necklace, similare to this one: https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcS7GxVY1KSfUFiR6o8cGPGDwemehbYKjXRdq9vgvXEGo1iscHBl0w What kind of tops looks good with it, for daytime wear? (Im 24 and prefer more smart/non-casual tops, average chested, defined waist and broad shoulders for reference) The only outfit Ive was to pair it with a lowcut wrap top and jeans/dresspants or long skirt and pumps for the evening... but I want to wear for daytime but have no idea what to wear it. I bought it last year and never used it once because of this dilemma.

Our pick of the answers:

Any clean cut neckline will probably do. I'd go with a scoop neckline or a square neckline. A slight V neck might be okay. Make sure the top has little to no embellishment since the necklace is so bold. I think it would look cute with something clean and white. Http://www.lordandtaylor.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/en/lord-and-taylor/womens-apparel/blouses--tunics/three-quarter-pintucked-cotton-modal-peasant-blouse

Lizzie asks…

What are your opinions on breastfeeding from age 2 or past it?

I am doing a research paper for English Comp I and am doing it on Breastfeeding. I want your opinions about this subject. Speak your mind, give me information about the benefits and the statistics, sources, or figures on these subject. I want your opinions and if you would like to tell me your name and state then I could used your answers in my paper. I want to do a great job on my assignment so please help! Thank You!

Our pick of the answers:

BF: 1st 3yrs, 2nd 3yr 3mths, 3rd 2yrs 9mths. All self weaned. I tried to wean 1st at 18mths because 'they' said he should be weaned. He accidently fractured my nose trying to get to my breast (wayward frustrated crying head toss). Him having been 12 weeks prem and the 6mth battle I endured to be able to feed him in the 1st place I decided to listen to him (&my heart) & let him continue. I hated seeing him so frustrated & its not asif it was something harmfull infact it is probably one of the best things I ever did for him! I was told of all the negatives: buck teeth, speech impediments, clingy baby, 'remebering' BFing, malnutrition because he would refuse other food, the list just goes on & on, then there was the social stigma...are you STILL feeding him??? Whisper whisper. Honestly it was as bad as highschool but i was 25 & these were supposedly adults! So we continued and he had none of the negatives & still all of the benifits. 2nd was a much bigger & more robust baby (2lb13oz vs 9lb) so I figured if the 1st fractured my nose the 2nd would anhiliate my face so had absolutle no expectations of wean time, although I was ready a few months before him to wean I knew it wouldnt last for ever & honsetly at that stage it wasnt very often. Our 3rd is still our mostindependent & she wanted to drink from a cup like her big brothers. WHile she still had the sippy cup from around 7mths (1st had odd bottle in hospital but apart from that all went breast -sippycup) she just wasnt as interested & I wouldnt express for a cup at that age. Infact I never even had a pump, if I needed to Id just hand express. All 3 have great immune systems, are rarely sick & if so bounce back quickly.None have speach, teeth or other supposed negs that 'they' forwarned. All are extremely intelligent with eldest all A classes in highschool, 2nd in gifted & talented program in primary school, youngest in the high achievement end of her expected outcomes for kindergarten. Statstically the western world drags down statistics on wean age, last I knew it was worldwide avergae 5yrs, western average 6months. Personally I think its s throw back on womens lib & class wars in the depression when the poor and uneducated bf & those who chose to be housewives were considered opressed. Even now in young 1st time Mums I know theres this pressure to be out & about life unchanged with a new baby. This is soooo counter productive to establishing BFing that most encounter problems establishing supply, combine this with the misinformation about 'formula being the same' & comparissons of breastfeeding schedules (ha there are non its bay wants baby gets) vs formula fed (clock says baby gets) then por Mum tries expressing to make sure bub gets enough but thinks as its from a bottle I should do bottle routine but its not its still breast routine & Ohhh poor Mum is just so confused & stressed & depressed & sleep deprived she says I cant do this & out comes the formula. I hope I didnt digress to far there.... I LOVED BFing, yes i cried & cried & battled even my own body to BF my 1st at 12 weeks prem & after being near fatally ill myself my body just couldnt get there. I had Drs & nurse as well as Hubby tryiign to convince me it was ok to formula feed Id tried my best but honestly mentally I could nt let go. He had alternate weeks of formula to breast it took me 2 weeks to supply his one week feeds. By 2 1/2 mths when he came home I could do it, feeding hourly to 2 hourly with no more than 4hrs overnight (all praise co sleeping!) By 31/2 months we were leveling out & at 6mths (when he would have been 3 months if born to term which oddly IS when term Bubs & Mums usually get into a rhythm) we got it! I leaked from 38weeks with my 2nd who was born 42weeks & like a hydrant from 34weeks with my last who was born at 36 weeks. Ive been 'dry' over 3 1/2 years now but still get a tingle & letdown sendation when a baby hungy cries :) My name is Vicki & I live in New South Wales Australia Please message me if I can offer any more info, Good Luck with your assignment :)

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