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Lisa asks…

Would you consider any of the following to be sexual harassment...?

wearing perfume. wearing lipstick. showing excessive skin. wearing excessive jewelry. pinching bums. walking slowly. wearing makeup. saying the phrase "Hi (name), you look nice today" a man going in the women's washroom. a woman going in the mans washroom. dying your hair. shaving your legs. shaving your face. wearing a skirt. wearing assless chaps. wearing a shirt that doesn't come up to your neck. wearing a pushup bra. wearing something to make your cock look bigger. wearing high heels. wearing nail polish/having long manicured nails. buying a coworker some coffee. asking a coworker to buy you a coffee (if they are getting some for themselves anyways). giving someone time off without a valid reason, a valid reason as in they are sick or injured to the point where they cannot do their job effectively, or possibly the death of a close family member. would you consider these things to be "sexual harassment"?

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Pinching bums certainly could be especially if it is unwelcome and repeated. Certainly a man going into a woman's restroom risks that claim, stuffing pants is taking a risk that way as well and obviously the chaps. Personally, I do not like the wording of harassment because it holds one person accountable for how another person feel. I think people should be accountable for their actions, not the feelings of others. ~

Laura asks…

Are you depressed during pregnancy?

Its kinda of depressing for me. I am so huge. When I was 17 I weighed 140 lbs at 5'6 i thought I looked ok just a little extra fat but i wasnt too worried about it. I got pregnant at late 17 and had her when i was 18. I have been pregnant 4 times. (had 2 miscarriages) And I am 30 weeks pregnant (almost) and weigh 212. I got with my husband when i was 7 months pregnant and so he hasnt seen me (at 140lbs) since high school when i first met him. I look awful. I cut my hair short for the 1st time about a yr ago and my hair was sooo long almost touched my butt. He loves long hair. I did it because I thought it would look good but makes me look wierd and even fatter. I wear it up alot because its straight and im not all that girly and i hate having to mess with it all day. I really wanna try really hard to lose weight after i have this baby. I have ALOT of stretch marks and I know it will never go away and probably will have alot of extra skin if i lose weight. I actually used to be pretty. I had new friends come over that didnt see me before i got pregnant and they asked who that girl was on the wall (it was me) they was amazed that I was once that pretty and that was only 3 yrs ago. My looks have changed so much that i am so disguised by myself. My husband always tells me that it doesnt bother him that i look this way before when i talked about being fat he would say well you just had a baby you are going to look like that for a while. But for awhile -maybe like 6 months not 3 yrs. ugh, i hate being so fat. I am getting my tubes tied and so i wont have to worry about getting pregnant and getting fat again. Thats not the only reason we can only afford 2 kids and i never did want a house full of kids anyhow. 2 is plenty for 1 person. I do wear bigger boy like shirts also because they are comfortable and like i said i am not girly. I wear girl pants and dress up when i go to the doctors but thats pretty much it. We live in the country so its not like i need to go fancy its not the city where you see people in dresses and high heels(which around here you never see) How do you girls feel about your weight and how you look ? If you arent pregnant and answering this then how did you lose all your weight? I know exercising will do the trick and eating right. Without having to buy special meals what is good food to eat to lose weight? And I dont like running so what other exercises is good. Sits up. Also i could never do pull ups and can only do push ups on my knees I am not all that strong and I am fat like over 200lbs fat sooo imagine me exercising and help me lose weight PLEASE !!!!!!!!

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Your hair will grow out again.. Actually your hair grows faster during pregnancy. (With my last pregnancy I noticed that my hair seemed to grow faster after they were born). You could try dying your hair a different color and it might look better! Wear some make up.. Cute jewelry. I find that bangs can sometimes really be cute! Also french braids are cute (esp pigtail ones) and you could try french braiding at night and taking it out in mroning to have wavy hair all day. Also eyebrows make a huge difference on a person! Get em waxed or color them in with an eyebrow pencil to make them darker/more accented. Mascre is awesome.. If you wear nothing else you should put some on.. It widens your eyes and makes you look more awake and long eyelashes are sexy. Foundation is really nice too it makes your skin tone even and hides a lot of blemishes and such. Blush accentuates your cheekbones. I find that how I dress has a big impact on how I feel about how I look. Maybe have a mommy shopping day a few months after baby is born! Even if your hair and body aren't what you want them to be exactly you can still do as much as possible to still feel cute. I got stretch marks with my last pregnancy but after tthey were born they became very light. If you are insecure about stretch marks you can find certain lotions and make ups to help clear them up and/or hide them. The only time I really show my tummy anymore anyways is if I'm intimate with hubby.. In which case you could get some cute lingerie that hides your tummy and flatters everything else! I am about 140 (after having twins) and 5'9 but my weight went up to about 200 when I was pregnant with them. So I lost a lot of it (about 20 lbs more than before).. Just by breastfeeding (which burns about 1000 calories or so a day and your body stores fat to burn while breastfeeding.. So bf is a great way to loose weight), doing some at home workout dvd's.. Going up and down stairs (at first in the apartment we lived in and now our house), going for walks with our kids. We pretty much went outside and played every day during summer! Just stuff like that. After this baby is born I am also going to try wii fitness dvd and maybe Jillian Michaels or some other workout dvd for the wii. We also got a treadmill and I'm hoping I utilize that after baby is born.. A treadmill in the house would make working out easier when you have kids (we got ours at a garage sale for like 80 bucks)! I don't really like running too much but running on a treadmill is different and more fun. Plus you can watch TV while you are on a treadmill! Another thing I did for awhile was hula hoop every day while the boys ate lunch. They thought it was funny and laughed whenever I did it! I would also do a few push ups randomally whenever I thought about it and some sit ups here and there. There are tons of different exercises you can do that aren't running.. You can look up different methods online. I think the dvds are really fun to do.. Like the aerobics and Carmen Electras strip tease videos (the work out one is a great work out and it's fun to watch and do.. The exercise one isn't even about "dancing" it's just about "getting a dancer's body"). Some great foods to eat are plain popcorn and celery. They take more more calories to burn off than they give you so they are actually "negative calories". (you can also google "negative calorie foods"). Vegetable soups (esp homemade), chicken breasts.. The type of bread you eat is really important.. Sara Lee Delightful is super low in calories and great if you want to loose weight. I think really chicken and vegetables are just great for loosing weight. (not fried chicken of course). Drink lots and lots of water! And if you drink a lot and stop realize your body starts holding onto water (water retention) because it doens't know when it will get it again. Eat lots of little snacks throughout the day instead of starving yourself.. This keeps your metabolism going and prevents your body from going into "starvation mode". Fruit smoothies are really yummy and healthy! Just put some frozen strawberries bananas and ice in a blender with some milk and it's super good and healthy! (you should really google recipes for fruit smoothies to "get it right" .. Some also have yogurt in em. Fresh fruit is expensive but if you get a bag of frozen fruit it's way cheaper and lasts longer). You could also try slim fast.. It's kinda gross when you mix it with milk but it has a smoothie recipe which is actually very delicious! You just add like a scoop of slim fast with some ice cubes and milk and blend it together! It's also very filling. Anyways. I used to have a flat tummy but after having twins I got a hernia (which I just - about 2 years later - found out about) which prevents my tummy from going flat again and I still look a little pregnant and won't be able to have a flat stomache again until I get surgery on it. To help hold it back I bought a thing from the lingerie section at walmart and it's almost like a tube top but very tight and designed to "hold your tummy in". They're called spanx. There's lots of different types.. Some look like a one piece swimming suit.. Some extend down to the thighs to help make your thighs look slimmer. Etc. My husband and I have discussed it and if I feel insecure with my body when I'm done having kids I will get some plastic surgery done.. Maybe a boob job (maybe not), maybe a tummy tuck (depending on how the hernia surgery goes). That is always an option too if you are very insecure and have extra skin and stretch marks and such. If you are depressed because of how you look you should really really be proactive about fixing it because if mama ain't happy ain't nobody happy! It's true .. Cuz if you are negative and insecure your husband will see that and it kinda rubs off and you probably won't treat him as you would if you were happy. And you won't be as excited to take care of your kids and it's already distracting you from being as excited as you could be about your baby so it really is important that you take care of yourself and do what you can to be where you want to be. For me, and my weight gain/hernia.. It doesn't depress me.. I am more insecure but try to do things to accomodate that insecurity (such as wearing lingerae and spanx and still dressing cute and wearing make up and such). I love my kids and husband and focus most of my attention on that and looking and feeling as good as I can for now. When we are done having kids then it will definitely be important to me to get exactly where I want to be! All it takes is self discipline.. Discipline to work out and be active and discipline to not eat certain foods and to eat certain foods and drink plenty of water. If you have extra time and money you could also get a trainer or join a fitness club or something of the like. They have 24 hour fitness.. If you don't have a sitter then you you could maybe go do that after your kids are in bed if your husband is at home with em! Sometimes when everyone is in bed I do my grocery shopping and it works great!

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