Carol asks…
is this at all stores?
in my mall there's a Coach store and then there's a Coach store in Macy's and Macy's has a bigger selection. to be honest i'd rather shop at Coach Macy's, they have a WAY bigger selection especially with shoes, they even have some shoes on clearance, which i don't see in the Coach store...thats in the outlet i guess lol. but why does Coach Macy's have a better selection and prices. the Coach Macy's is better than the Coach Store by me....its so weird.
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Idk. But at my macy's they have a lot of Coach products too, even though we have an actual Coach store.
Donna asks…
What exactly is next-door neighbor wife up to?
My 5 year struggle... My next-door neighbor has been a cross to bear for a while now. She is the same age as my wife, and although she and my wife (MW) are friendly, they are not what I'd call friends. "Neighbor wife" (NW) really has no other female friends other than her sister, and I can sort of see why. She is extremely flirtatious, outgoing, fairly high-strung, pretty good looking (tall, curly brunette, green eyes! - middle eastern/southern belle descent. Some mix, eh?), dynamite body (former H.S./college cross county runner - very distracting in the eyes of any straight male), but very opinionated. So anyway, it's pretty clear among the risqué conversations (always reserved for when my wife is not present and usually prompted by NW), hints, actual brief discussions about her and her husband's bedroom habits, innuendo and double-entendres, along with the occasional catching her eye(ing) when I'm in the yard working (shirt-less, or other wise), I have a pretty good clue that she is either interested, a sociopath, or just simply starved for attention. Several of these discussions have been launched when I have been asked to fix a faucet or garbage disposal in a (I believe) made up/non-critical situation, but I have never furthered any of these situations, nor have I deflected them, which is why this game has probaly gone on thus far. It's not hard for her to detect that I have a similar sense of humor/intrest, as I am usually quick to match her every quip unless she really catches me off guard (like the time she made it pretty clear that she most enjoys her husband "taking her" in a certain position). I had no rebut but to smile and tell her how lucky "Neighbor Husband" (NH) was. Are you beginning to understand my frustration?? I know that she is does not have the utmost self- confidence. She was once divorced (very young), and currently has a husband that has a very labor-intensive job that usually leaves him in front of the TV or sleeping on the rare occasions he's at home. She probably feels she doesn't get the attention she needs or deserves. Again, she has no real friends outside of the family and the friends she does mention from the past are former neighbor friends and guys. She says she hates most of her co-workers and I guess that's common. Her conversations (w/ me) usually center on her appearance and how she might change this or change that about her looks or wardrobe (And speaking of wardrobe, through casual conversation, I have a pretty good idea of her lingerie collection and shoe collection for some reason! ). Other topics involve shopping, their financial situation, her job, and other neighbors. So other than sex, the topics usually take on a comedic vein. A bit more background: Early in our relationship my wife and I in an informal yard chat exchanged wedding albums with NW (of course NH wasn't around). In paging thru NW's album toward the end was a pic of the honeymoon night of her in a pose (half dressed), which probably was not fit, for public consumption. I'm not sure if my wife caught this pick, but I sure as heck did. NW also talks too much about her 12 year old daughters "coming of age" and her premature puberty. I don't find the topic of specific descriptions of the kids bodily development or their latest trip to the drug store for Accutane, or the outlet mall for bra shopping the least bit interesting, but I must add this in light of NW's (psycho)sexual peculiarities. Well...anyway... The limited times I have had a beer and discussion with NH he shows fairly liberal tendency's, but is much more conversationally reserved and is basically a pushover. As you can image NW does most of the talking, and that just the way it is. I know he knows his wife is a bit of a flirt, but probably not as much as I know she is! The occasions that she flaunts about the yard in a bikini has pretty much stopped, probably due to the fact she's gained a couple of pounds, but even last night she came out in very short shorts and didn't bother to have a bra on under a very thin white tank t-shirt. This apparrel seems to be reserved for when her hubby is out and my wife is not present. Further, about 3 years ago, the topic of cheating came up in casual conversation. I only got the nerve to delve into the subject after she showed up alone at a public (county) meeting that she knew I'd be attending alone. She came dressed very nice but not overly suggestive. She did not say a whole lot that night, nor did I to her, but NW was always sitting or standing at my side as we engaged in casual conversation with others. It was sort of odd in a way, as if she was being a stand-in wife (perhaps the core of this entire issue). After about an hour-and-a-half she realized that this event was more related to my profession than just a civic fling, and she suddenly decided to leave before the event was actually over (I think she may have had second thoughts, or just become uncomfortable, or was sick of waiting for me to hit on her). She said she had to pick-up her kids. Later that week when I brought up the subject NW stated, out of the blue, that she didn't think she could ever cheat on her husband - This came out without any direct "hit" from me, so I was a bit stunned. I think I had a couple of Beefeaters in me that Friday night, and coupled with the normal engaging chat, and the aforementioned meeting "date", I stopped the "entertainment" right there and bid her goodnight. But the flirting, innuendo and everything else continued. Any day I'd be working in the yard she usually finds a way to make her way outside (watch the kids play, read, water plants, etc.). And last month's shocker: Her husband recently needed a pair of eyeglasses. I nearly choked in disbelief when he came out of the house with frames identical to mine!! (I wear glasses on occasion) He is my height and age, but that is where our similarities end. He is fairly stocky and heavier than me and his hair is very thin. But I have to say other than looking worn out most of the time and being a bit overweight, he's a decent looking guy - was probably very good looking when they were married 13 years ago (exactly one year after MW and me). MW has become leery and I'd dare to say a bit jealous of the situation. She sees NW and me as being too chummy and I have told her I have no intention on being anything else but friends with our neighbors and see all of this as titalating entertainment. I think she sees the attraction (or tension) when the 3 of us are in the yard together. MW has even gone as far to ask if I was having an affair with her when things were not going so well for us a couple of years back, which I have not done and will not do. It has had an effect on our relationship and I have even considered moving to lessen the stress on our situation. I have since downplayed the situation and dismissed it. I must honestly say that MW has become a better sport about it and that our situation has improved. It has helped that I have seen a lot less of NW lately "unsupervised". Things spooled up again, however, 2 weeks ago as she informed me that her husband was now home on a weeks vacation and would this evening need to be "tricking" NH in to giving her some "lovin'" tonight. This statement came immediately after she watched MW go into our house and out of earshot. I know she wanted me to delve deeper into the subject but I simply gave he a smile and told her some time 'old dogs need tricks once in a while'. She followed that up with a smile and (as she was about to (I think) further the discussion), then, quickly a flustered look when my house door opened and my wife reappeared on the scene to call the kids for supper. NW then rose out of lawn chair folded it to leave while changing the subject quickly. We parted ways as we do many evenings, but as always I got the glance back I usually get before she gets into her house. She may not always know I see her do it, but I normally do. I always wish I had something better to comeback with when she blindsides me like that, but I also do not want to fan the flames, or upset my wife. I am confident and know for sure if NW made any type of direct or physical first move that I would not indulge her, or do anything else for that matter. But I'd love to have as many answers to the many questions that fill my mind. You can imagine what they are from all the situations mentioned above. What is this woman up to?? Well folks, I only ask that you give this confused "Neighbor Husband" some advise and possibly lend some sort explanation of what the hell might be going on here. Any takers?? Don't bother answering if youre not going to read all necessary details. If you'd bother to get all the details you'd see I don't ever intend on cheating! I'm simply trying to get a read on a very complex situation that has affected my (and my families) life.
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Bottom Line: Stop the games and don't cheat on your wife and you can never go wrong. I mean come on...do you really want to be "that guy"? And just the fact that you have put this much wasted thought into it just proves that you are out of your boundaries...
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