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How do people know so much about suits and stuff fancy?
Like Ryan gosling in crazy stupid love and Barney Stinson. How do people learn what good suits and ties are and good shoes and What to drink at a bar with a certain meal and stuff.
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There are a website and a book called "The Art of Manliness". These will give you all the basics of dress and grooming, manly skills, health and sports and much, much more. Here are some of the articles from Dress & Grooming: Dressing Sharp & Casual: The Comprehensive Guide for Young Men How to Layer Clothing With Style Save Money and Shop Smart: Know the Style Pyramid Here is a description of the book: "Book: The Art of Manliness: Classic Skills and Manners for the Modern Man Book Description Publication Date: October 15, 2009 Man Up! While it's definitely more than just monster trucks, grilling and six-pack abs, true manliness is hard to define. The words macho and manly are not synonymous. Taking lessons from classic gentlemen such as Benjamin Franklin and Theodore Roosevelt, authors Brett and Kate McKay have created a collection of the most useful advice every man needs to know to live life to its full potential. This book contains a wealth of information that ranges from survival skills to social skills to advice on how to improve your character. Whether you are braving the wilds with your friends, courting your girlfriend or raising a family, inside you'll find practical information and inspiration for every area of life. You'll learn the basics all modern men should know, including how to: Shave like your grandpa Be a perfect houseguest Fight like a gentleman using the art of bartitsu Help a friend with a problem Give a man hug Perform a fireman's carry Ask for a woman's hand in marriage Raise resilient kids Predict the weather like a frontiersman Start a fire without matches Give a dynamic speech Live a well-balanced life So jump in today and gain the skills and knowledge you need to be a real man in the 21st century." These may give you a wide vision of what the life of a man can be as well as the means to achieve it!
Sharon asks…
What constitutes harassment when it comes to collectors or repo men?
My daughter has fell on some hard times (who hasnt in this economy), and though I have been helping her out.... her car payment has slipped behind and now the finance agency and the repo man has been calling and doing drive bys. Ok sure they have the right to look because they are trying to obtain the collateral that was used to secure this loan. The thing is she has called me in tears because (based on her description) they are harassing her. And if all she is telling me is true.... they have to be. So my question is : " What constitutes harassment and how to get them to stop "? How many times can they call in a day? How many times can the repo guy come to your house? How can she make this stop? What are the repo man and bank legally allowed to do? In one instance already the repo man has been to her house, her work, her neighbors house, and her ex boyfriends house talking to everyone. Then (and this is when she called me crying) he called and left a nasty message on her stating that he would continuing doing all this until she gave him the car. I told her to save that message and not delete it. She said she is scared now to talk to her friends, she is afraid she will get fired from work, and that her neighbors will not like her anymore if he keeps doing this. I understand so I write you asking.... how much is too much? How can I help her make this stop? Please dont tell me to "pay the loan up and it will stop". I mean this is obvious, and if I could do that for her I would. So basically I am trying to keep my daughter as stressed free as possible. I am trying to keep her "afloat" and she is trying to get things together to eventually pay off the debt or the loan. I understand what they are trying to do, but at this point it seems to have gone too far. I would think that the only thing that should feel at risk here for being lost is the car by this company and its servants. Also, just for my own curiosity, does the repo man have the right to walk around the house or look for anything (especially in a gated back yard) - just dont want this guy looking in her windows while she is safe at home with her daughter or walking around her house possibly scaring them. Is there a no trespassing clause? Also, is she able to be brought up on criminal charges by the bank for theft if the repo man can not recover the car or is this a civil matter? (it is one of those things she need the car to go to work to make the money to eventually pay for the car, yet without the car she cant work and pay off the car). I appreciate your legal insight
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Laws vary state to state. Here in Mississippi they cannot enter an enclosed area as long as it is clear the area is secured(gate,barricade, etc.)they can be on the property unless you have posted signs Or you inform them they are not welcome. With posted signs they still have access to use your driveway Or sidewalk to make access to your primary point of entry(front door, carport, etc.) If they do not have a court order and they have been asked to leave but refuse you can have them arrested.... Or shoot them. If they have an order of repossessions they have to have an officer of the peace to enforce it. I've been in your daughters shoes. I made arrangements to have the repo agency listed with my employment as a no trespass for company property. They made mistake of going to my friends house and lost a tow truck....motor accidentally got a 5lb sack of sugar in the tank while they attempted to strong arm us guys. Gotta love those country girls. Legally they have to do things a certain way. But if they get it away from you by their own means they can keep it. If u r in it don't get out,don't give up the keys,if they lay hands on u shoot to kill scream rape draw attention. If they can't move it they can't take it. Park it in a closed garage Or where
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