Susan asks…
Ladies ( men too), tell me the truth, what to do with my wife?
My wife met up with her long lost b/f. They lost contact for 33 years and when they met in his hotel room, it was kept secret from me. I then found some very passionate emails and sms. They were catching up on lost times, so to say. Obviously I suspect them kissing and huggings in the room. Would you ladies allow the same thing to happen if you are in her shoes? I approached her and of course she denied anything beyond hugging and kissing. Imagine, they have not met for 33 years and year they bond so well that they even collaborated by finding ways to get even with me for intruding her privacy. I went through hell and am wondering right now the worthiness of my relationship with her. I simply can't believe a decent girl like my wife will do such thing behind me. This guy is still keeping in touch with her though he works far away and sending money to her occasionally. What am I suppose to do? I do still love her but I will not hesitate to leave her if I find out that they did had sex. He was the first one to kissed and hugged her when they were 17 years old. Ladies, will you allow this to happen to you?
Our pick of the answers:
She was wrong for everything that she did.!!!! No it was not okay for her to meet him at his hotel. Even if she told you that she did not have sex with him you will never know and that can hurt you even more. I think that the fact that she went to a hotel means that she was up for the opportunity and what happen happened including sex. If they are rekindling a relationship it starts right where they are at by just talking and finding places to meet up. However i do believe that people do deserve second chances and if you can forgive and forget then maybe you will save your marriage. But she also has to stop any and every communication with him and some type of remorse should be evident. In conclusions if my husband did that I would put him on punishment for a long long time.
Lisa asks…
Ladies with style, which men's shoes do you like best (links w/pics below)?
Keep in mind Im 45 years old. Thanks for your help, Im looking forward to your vote! Shoe #1 http://www.allenedmonds.com/aeonline/product_6490171_1_40000000001_-1?categoryId=120552&top_category=120552 Shoe #2 http://www.allenedmonds.com/aeonline/product_6486225_1_40000000001_-1?categoryId=120552&top_category=120552 Shoe #3 http://www.allenedmonds.com/aeonline/product_6486803_1_40000000001_-1?categoryId=120552&top_category=120552
Our pick of the answers:
It was hard to pick between the second and third ones, but I think personally I like the 2nd a little more. They are a little more modern but still very classy. But if you like a more classic look then I'd go with the third, you can't really go wrong either way.
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