Mary asks…
How is the first day of school like
I'm going into 8th grade and i was home-schooled my whole life .I'mIm a lady killer just for your info.How hard is it to make friends what's like in the cafetiere.How long to i have to wait to ask a girl out.by the way im a big guy im 6 foot size 13 in shoes and big arms.
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It's gonna be a breeze 4 u! 8th grade was the best year of my life, last year i made so many freinds, but you have to be very careful because you have to pick and chose your friends carefully. Asking grls out, idk, but it was pretty easy for my guy friends! But some advice from a girl: 1. Always be yourself; i know you have probably heard this before, but it's the truth, i wouldn't want to walk around with a fake! 2. Don't use too much colonge, and always take a shower b4 you put that stuff on, because if you stink and you put colonge on, you will get a lot of complaints, take some extra deoderant or some wipes, girls love guys that smell good, and especially one that smells fresh, i recommend baby lotion (johnson& johnson), at least i think it smells good on a guy, heck i love it! 3. Girls like a nice guy, flirt a little, and don't be too nice or too tough they'll either think your weak, or scary!! ;) 4. Oh yeah, if you like a girl and she seems to like you too, ask when you feel like your ready. Don't wait till the school year is almost over < the most annoying thing a guy can do is wait till last minute. 5. Remeber to let people know you're smart, but don't become a nerd, make sure you get a friend (most likely a guy) that has lot of female friends. He can be your mentor! 6. Look good even when your, sick, sad, mad, w/e just make sure you look decent, don't go up to school looking a hot mess, that's the worst way to make a first impression you don't have to look like you stepped out of a magazine, just look good enough to let people know that you have some fashioon sense! 7. Before you go out on a date make sure you save up some money 8. Try to keep your shoes clean, cuz that's the first thing people look at. 9. Try not to fight a lot, but if it happens win, and if you don't at least give a real good punch, it's good to have a strong boyfriend. 10. Take good care of your skin, make it glow and almost clear, it dosen't have to be perfect! 11. Be cool with your teachers, my rule is, if you treat a teacher nice you'll earn a lot of rewards, and trust, that dosen't mean be a teachers pet, treat your teachers nicely, if your nice to your teachers, they'll return the favor. 11. Get in some sports, your coach will probably adore you for football, and basketball, especially track! 12. Do Not Be A Pushover, don't let people take advantage of you! The cafeteria = long lines, okay food, sometimes they don't have the food you want, but at least you'll have a chioce, might wanna pack your lunch on the first day, unless you know the menu. My school didn't have the greatest food last year, it was a whole lot of pizza and greasy food (but that might not be the case with your school), Friday, has the best lunch, usually! Hope i helped, wish you the best of luck!!! ;-)
Lisa asks…
i dont want to tell my mum and dad about it incase he finds out?
my big brother is 13 and im 12 (we are both boys) and im taller than him, he is a size 1 in a shoe and im a size 5 and i think he hates me because of it, whenever i try to help him he always tells me of like one day when we was rushing for school he was putting his socks on so i gave him his shoes and he threw one at me and shouted "stop touching my stuff **** sake" so i just left him alone for the rest of the day hes always nasty to me when it comes to things like once when i was helping our mum do the washing he told me to leave it alone because he didnt want me "touching his clothes" so i said "why" and he shouted "because i dont" and then shoved me. i remember once when we went to the shop walking home from school and the person said "is that your little brother" to my big brother and once we got out the shop he told me we were going a "shortcut" home so we went to a back lane and he started going all crazy at me again and punched me softly on my face i was scared and didnt understand what i had done i remember once we went bowling and when we had to tell the lady our shoe sizes he didnt want to tell her in front of me so i told her i was a size 5 and once i walked away he told her he was a size 1 i wanted to ask him why he done it but i didnt want him getting angry at me. its got to a stage now where im scared to share a room with him because he treats me nasty i mean he does treat me nice sometimes like we sit and play x box together a lot and have a laugh in our room like play fighting etc and we sit and watch dvds and stuff and talk when we cant get to sleep and he tells me a lot of stuff he wouldnt tell anyone else but theres just sometimes he just is a bad big brother and theres other times when he will actually make a fun of his height like he once tried on my shoes and laughed because his feet were too small to fit in them then i tried on his and he got angry because my feet were too big to fit in them i remember when we were in tesco when my mum was buying us our school trousers and he got angry because i found out his trousers size was a size 6-7 but i was a size 12-13 and for that full night and the next day he didnt speak to me and treated me like dirt all my family think he is a lovely boy and thinks he wouldnt hurt anyone? http://www.flickr.com/photos/65152010@N02/6377479243/in/photostream (he is the boy on the bottom row right hand corner)
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He doesn't hate you; he is jealous because he wants to be bigger than his younger brother. It's not right, but can you really blame him? His self respect is low as a result, and people with low self respect find it hard to respect others. What is there about him that you can respect and admire? Is he quite clever? Good at sport or music? Try to discuss the matter with your parents. Maybe he can have some small privileges due to his being a year older. Slightly later bedtime? A little more pocket money? You may not like it, but if you suggest these (fair) measures to your parents, he'll love and respect you forever. Ask to have a serious discussion with your family about how your parents see things panning out in the coming years for you both. It needs to be fairly rational, so if one of you becomes too emotional (e.g. Angry) it would be best to try again another time. Prepare in advance what you would like to say and ask: write a plan, even. As you both reach each birthday, for example, or each new school year, what rights, freedoms and responsibilities will you each have? Chores, pocket money, curfews, dating, etc. Will all come into it, obviously. You can't really expect something for nothing, so think about what you can put into the family and household as part of your negotiations as to what you can get. Probably best to discusswith your brother first. Hopefully this will show that you have a maturing attitude to your family and your life. Good Luck!
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