Linda asks…
What could I do to stop feeling depressed because of the lonelyness without my girlfriend ?
My girlfriend had recently died to an awkward death of her collapsing. Two months has passed since that horrifying day had come. It just feels so lonely and empty without my girlfriend and I feel so lost and my heart hurts so much. She was only 22 years old when she had left and I was hoping to marry her. She and I had taken a lot of pictures and I've placed theme on the walls of the house and I have pictures of her and me on the computer and on my computer's desktop wallpaper. She basically left everything and now her clothing and shoes are still in the house. I often see her in my dreams and she once told me in the dream that death cannot seperate our love for each other and we kissed afterwards. Now everytime when i open our walk in closet and everytime i see my girlfriend's heels i started to cry a lot and I just hugged the shoes against my chest everytime I cry. It also upsets me when I saw our last christmas photo of us standing together when I boot up my computer. I'm planning to sale the house she bought and move back with my relatives, but i don't know what to do with her clothes and shoes. I was thinking of keeping them so I could keep my girlfriend close to me and my heart. What should I do to make myself feel better ?? What can i do because I am lost without her ??
Our pick of the answers:
Well, find some friends to lean on. If she was there to tell you im sure she would want you to stay happy and raise a family with a loving wife, she would want the best for you.
Donna asks…
What could I do to make myself feel better because of my lonelyness without my girlfriend ?
My girlfriend had recently died to an awkward death of her collapsing. Two months has passed since that horrifying day had come. It just feels so lonely and empty without my girlfriend and I feel so lost and my heart hurts so much. She was only 22 years old when she had left and I was hoping to marry her. She and I had taken a lot of pictures and I've placed theme on the walls of the house and I have pictures of her and me on the computer and on my computer's desktop wallpaper. She basically left everything and now her clothing and shoes are still in the house. I often see her in my dreams and she once told me in the dream that death cannot seperate our love for each other and we kissed afterwards. Now everytime when i open our walk in closet and everytime i see my girlfriend's heels i started to cry a lot and I just hugged the shoes against my chest everytime I cry. It also upsets me when I saw our last christmas photo of us standing together when I boot up my computer. I'm planning to sale the house she bought and move back with my relatives, but i don't know what to do with her clothes and shoes. I was thinking of keeping them so I could keep my girlfriend close to me and my heart. What should I do to make myself feel better ?? What can i do because I am lost without her ??
Our pick of the answers:
Im so sorry to hear about what you are going through. I cant even imagine. But all you can do is take it day by day. Time heals everything. Talking about it will help you feel better. Closer is what you need and learn how to cope with the situation. You should try seeing a therapist to help you cope. Some you cant trust and someone who will give you the feedback that you need. I truly hope the best for you. Just know you will be okay and in due time you start to feel like yourself again
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